Everyone learns to say “thank you” as a child. A young child depends on saying it to have their wishes granted. Adults, for the most part, fulfill their own wishes on their own. In our fast-paced world, saying “thank you” often falls by the wayside. Yet many people around us deserve a “thank you.” Each of us relies on the help of others from time to time. By saying “thank you,” you show respect for the person who helped you and acknowledge their kindness.
Even after weddings or funerals, it’s customary to send thank-you notes in response to congratulations or expressions of sympathy. Animals express their gratitude in their own way. Dogs, for example, show their gratitude in their daily interactions with humans. Some people use “thank you” merely as a stock phrase or to manipulate others. A “thank you” often comes out reflexively—or not at all.
Why Many People Don't Say "Thank You"
- They believe they are entitled to the assistance,
- They don't put themselves in other people's shoes, or
- They feel disadvantaged anyway and consider help from others to be a fair compensation.
In doing so, they miss out on the positive effects that saying “thank you” has on their mood. Their mood improves, leading to contentment and a sense of balance. People who see the positive side of life are automatically happier. The person who helped you feels taken seriously and appreciated. They know you don’t take their help for granted. Next time, don’t forget to say “thank you” to someone. This can also take the form of a small, inexpensive token of appreciation. Often, a small gesture has a much greater impact than a big gift.
Wella shares the view that many people deserve our thanks. Through its new film, “Hairstylists Make a Difference,” the company explicitly encourages consumers to thank their hairstylists. The film is part of the initiative of the same name.
